I've had this one on my mind since Saturday. Somewhere in an innocent conversation my 1st grade son brings up a piece of information I found irritating. The background of the conversation was the topic of "marriage" because for what ever reason that's what he and my daughter were talking about. I over hear him say something like this, "No that's not true, my teacher told us that in some states boys can marry other boys, and girls can marry other girls."
I stopped doing what I was doing, and asked him to explain further what he meant. He went on to basically say that his teacher "explained to the class that boys don't always have to marry girls. That if they wanted to, they could go to other states and boys could marry boys, or girls could marry girls." I didn't press for much more information, and simply told him that boys marry girls. Anything else is just kinda silly. Then as kids that age do, they move on...
I'm probably gonna send a short note to the teacher, asking her to help me understand the overall context of the conversation in which this subject came up. Personally, I don't care if somebody is gay, straight, bi, what ever. What bothers me is that is a 1st grade classroom the appropriate place to bring up the topic of gay marriage? In my opinion, "no" that's a topic best handled by parents.
So, what's the best way to cross this bridge with a teacher, without starting a firestorm? I don't want to throw her under the bus, but if she is crossing lines that shouldn't be crossed in the classroom I don't have a problem doing it.
Thoughts?
I stopped doing what I was doing, and asked him to explain further what he meant. He went on to basically say that his teacher "explained to the class that boys don't always have to marry girls. That if they wanted to, they could go to other states and boys could marry boys, or girls could marry girls." I didn't press for much more information, and simply told him that boys marry girls. Anything else is just kinda silly. Then as kids that age do, they move on...
I'm probably gonna send a short note to the teacher, asking her to help me understand the overall context of the conversation in which this subject came up. Personally, I don't care if somebody is gay, straight, bi, what ever. What bothers me is that is a 1st grade classroom the appropriate place to bring up the topic of gay marriage? In my opinion, "no" that's a topic best handled by parents.
So, what's the best way to cross this bridge with a teacher, without starting a firestorm? I don't want to throw her under the bus, but if she is crossing lines that shouldn't be crossed in the classroom I don't have a problem doing it.
Thoughts?