Talked to my wife on the way to a concert last night. TOO was brought up and just what it is that sucks me in. Here is what I came up with:
The site is 45% rock solid knowledge.
45% ball busting and locker room humor.
10% is genuine, truly caring, compassionate, generous, do anything for you, God fearing, family people, USA loving, outdoor loving. . . .when the moments arise for this portion of us to show up (a generous gift, a moment of need for a TOO member, etc)- this 10% over rules the ball busting and knowledge. This 10% shows the true character and quality of people the site offers. This 10% of seriousness is the glue which bonds the site together.
My percentages might be off, but this is what I told my wife and I believe it. Thanks all. Congratulations Joe and Jesse. Looking forward to many more years.