I'm just saying guys. I don't think it holds any bearing. The personal definition for sexual deviance is all relative. What you think is crazy freaky, someone else may see as normal, and what you see as normal, someone else may see as some freaky jacked up shit. For instance. You might like to slap your significant other on the ass while having sex. To you it's normal, but to someone else it's weird and freaky. I would venture to say that if yall knew what people did behind closed doors you'd have a nervous breakdown. Not only what, but who was doing it. As an example. Think about a very successful director or VP who is a female. Outwardly you see a successful woman with her career together, she has a MBA, and is on the fast track for upper management. But honestly, you know nothing about her. The night before she could have been bent over a couch, tied with a ball gag in her mouth, and have bruises on her ass from a riding crop. Now say a cut throat media person got a picture of that and went after her. Obviously she's going to deny it. Why? Because we as society have placed a stigma of "that's freaky she's fucked up in the head" and then we try to correlate that to other aspects of her life. When in reality, It has ZERO bearing on who she is as a person and how she conducts business. 5 minutes ago you never even knew it. She was just another successful person on the fact track. But now she's fucked up in the head and shouldn;t be trusted. What people like to do in the bedroom is no different than someone liking vanilla, and someone liking Neapolitan. You can't explain why one person likes this ice cream and the other doesn't. Nor can we attach a stigma to it just because we don't understand it.
